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Posted 6/5/2014 4:02 PM (GMT 0)
New here. I really don't know where to post it so bear with me. For 4 years I feel like I was living in hell of my physical symptoms. And my symptoms is 24/7 non stop. From the day I woke up till the day I go to sleep and it was frustrating.

My physical symtoms are:

Dizziness
Feel fainting
Pain all over
Head ache
Internal tremor
Tremor
Tingling
And many more. But it worse because of my insomnia, I couldn't sleep anymore. I feel sleepy but I can't sleep. My brain won't shut down and it made me sicked. That's why I take seroquel 25mg for sleep, but I don't like to take it, but I don't have enough choice. I should sleep for 10 hours. If not my physical symptoms goes haywire.

I've gone through different doctors, but the worst is they have different opinions. From anxiety, ms, heartburn, diabetes etc... I really don't know who to believe in. I lost my job, my wife leaves me and take away my son from me. Because she said I'm weak and lazy. I have no money now, my family and friends tell me to get over it which is really hard.

This is my question. Could this be really anxiety or real illness?. I never felt anxious or worried at all, but my physical symptoms is killing me. Sometimes, I think it just anxiety because I never lose weight, but I don't know. Do you guys feel that too, that you were never anxious but your physical symptoms are killing you?.

Post Edited (Honesto; promise.) : 6/5/2014 10:27:15 AM (GMT-6)

Posted 6/5/2014 4:47 PM (GMT 0)
Hi HP and welcome,

If I could get a little clarification please, that might help me to better advise you.

Your mentioned your doctors having differing opinions and ideas as to the cause of your symptoms...

Did you ever receive a definitive diagnoses, or follow up with testing for any of the suggested illnesses that you mention in your post?

Yes, anxiety can certainly cause physical symptoms...but I really think that you should stick with one doctor, who can investigate your case, order tests and possibly then make referrals to specialists who can give you the final word and diagnoses...be it anxiety, or physical illness.

I am sorry that you have gone through so much! I wish you the best, and hope that you get the answers that you need soon!

Scaredy Cat
Posted 6/5/2014 4:52 PM (GMT 0)
I really think it also just anxiety, because it just hit me when my wife is nagging me. And after that incident my life change dramatically. For being a happy person to be alone. I'm gone through psychiatrist, neurologist, cardiologist, internal medicine. All the findings are normal. I can't afford to do some test anymore because of lack of money. Thank you for your reply.
Posted 6/5/2014 4:57 PM (GMT 0)
Yes, anxiety can cause symptoms like these. Worry and stress can make them worse.

Like it has been suggested, you should see a good doc and stay with that person, get on some medications they suggest. Have some tests completed to rule out any thing such as diabetic concerns.

Once that is done, seeing a therapist is a good idea, when our emotions are all over the place and our thoughts are out of control, ruminating over and over again, we need a professional to help guide us into a safe environment. Where we can learn to control the emotions and thoughts and NOT let them take control of us so much.

I wish you Peace and comfort
Trina
Posted 6/5/2014 5:18 PM (GMT 0)
H.P.,

Well I am glad to hear that your test results were normal...but after the initial relief of course, that can bring it own frustrations as to how to proceed, right?

I do echo BNA's advice above...that perhaps you can consider medication and/or therapy as your next move in treating this issue.

Also, I invite you to visit our Resources here:

https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=9&m=104206


They are full of great information and suggestions for self-help in treating anxiety and panic.

Keep posting with us as well. Support is key!

S.C.

Posted 6/5/2014 5:29 PM (GMT 0)
Hello HP and welcome,

I am sorry you are having such a hard time and I understand well what it feels like to be on the worry-go-round of "what if?" thinking. I was dx with anxiety in 1982 and most of the time I have been ok but some major episodes have assaulted my life.  With the help of my Dr. a therapist, medication and this great forum I have learned ways to accept my anxiety and not let it rule my life.

When my mind starts wandering into the ifs? I talk to myself and tell myself rational answers for my what-ifs. It’s really hard when the what-ifs escalate. Sometimes it just gets away from us. Another thing that works well for me is distraction. I get up and clean or get on the computer...anything that makes me concentrate on something else. Sometimes I call a "safe person", someone that understands and is able to distract me with other conversation. Deep, slow belly breathing helps to clear your mind too.

It is normal for each of us to experience some anxiety, however, if it is out of hand, one of the best things you can do is make an appointment with a therapist for some one on one counseling.

I agree with sticking to one Dr., your primary physician so any tests, new symptoms can be investigated by the same physician that is familiar with your medical history.

Coming here and talking with us is a good way to share your problems with us and receive support from others who care.

Kindly,

Kitt

Posted 6/5/2014 5:51 PM (GMT 0)
Wow kitt its been 30 years that's too long. how do you survive or cope it everyday?. For me its been 4 years, but it feels it's been too long.
Posted 6/14/2014 3:35 PM (GMT 0)
HP,

Just doing some catching up as my anxiety/depression has been in high gear for a long time but I am finally feeling more normal..............which means I am not in tears of anxiety everyday. :-)

It has been a long time since 1982 but truly in the beginning therapy and one medication kept me in the ballgame for about 20 years.  During that time I managed to deal with the death of my son and continue my career that I loved so much.  In the early 2000's my anxiety started to act up more and I would have mini-breaks  of about 2 weeks every year but my Dr. kept switching meds until 2005 when I had a major melt down.  After that I started to see my current Psychiatrist and she has helped me put humpty dumpty back together again.

My first medication was Nortripyline and it held for 20 years with a bit of tweaking here and there.  Once it pooped out my Dr. started in with all the new SSRI/SNRI meds plus some old standbys.

Between therapy, a supportive family, this wonderful group and the many prayers offered for me, I am doing well.

Never doubt the power of prayer and support.

Kindly,

Kitt

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