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Posted 4/8/2015 9:51 PM (GMT 0)
cry cry ......its been 1an1/2 months since I lost her. I just can't believe it. always thinking over an talking to her. Am I normal? cry
Posted 4/8/2015 9:59 PM (GMT 0)
very normal. grief is a very personal experience. my deepest condolences over your loss. tinker2, know that we all send our healing thoughts and prayers to you. we are here for you.
Posted 4/8/2015 10:09 PM (GMT 0)
I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine losing one of my boys. My heart goes out to you, and yes you are normal hun. There is no time limit for grief. I lost my husband 11 years ago and I still grieve for him, so don't let anyone tell you that you need to get over it. You take all the time you need to grieve.
Posted 4/8/2015 10:21 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Tinker and welcome.

I too want to add my condolences and assurances that what you are feeling is completely normal, expected and even necessary.

Do you have a support system for yourself...people to talk to, reach out to when you need it?

If you find you are feeling isolated and alone in your grief...there are programs such as Grief Share and other groups that meet through local churches and community centers/hospitals, ect...

I can look up some resources anytime if you'd like.

We are here to care and support anytime as well. Keep posting if you find it helpful.

With compassion,

Scaredy Cat
Posted 4/8/2015 10:45 PM (GMT 0)
Tinker, I am so sorry for your loss. What you are going through is very much normal and a very personal thing. Everyone grieves in their own way and since it's only been 1 1/2 months, it's still very raw I'm sure. We are here to listen and support you and you process and cope. Hugs to you!
Posted 4/8/2015 11:12 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God bless and comfort you...
Posted 4/8/2015 11:35 PM (GMT 0)
Dear Tinker, your Love, your pain, they reflect how much you care and still care, this is between you and
your baby girl, there are no rules, I might think i know how you feel, but honestly i have no idea at the
pain you go through, we are here and we will Pray for you and Her, Peace

Larry ***
Posted 4/9/2015 12:56 AM (GMT 0)
I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you.
Posted 4/9/2015 4:26 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Tinker2,
I am so very sorry for your loss and can't imagine what you are going through! I can't imagine losing a child, but I would think you would be very abnormal not to be grieving tremendously. This is such a recent loss, anything you need to do to get through the grieving process is important. Talking to her seems like a great thing to do. I recommend you look for a support group of parents who have lost children. I'm sure talking with others who have experienced it would help. Prayers of comfort and peace for you...Cindy
Posted 4/9/2015 7:24 AM (GMT 0)
I am deeply sorry for your loss.. we are here for you if you need us

XXXXXX
Posted 4/9/2015 11:36 AM (GMT 0)
Hi I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my brother (24) last May and know that for my mother and I it still feels like yesterday. We're still adjusting but it has gotten a little less raw. You are not abnormal! It just takes time.

I know two resources that helped us are Compassionate Friends and Bereaved Parents. They both have local groups and chat boards.
Not sure if I'm allowed to post outside links but
http://www.bereavedparentsusa.org/
https://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx

*edit, I made the links active for you.

Post Edited By Moderator (Scaredy Cat) : 4/9/2015 9:28:55 AM (GMT-6)

Posted 4/9/2015 12:54 PM (GMT 0)
(((Hug)))

:-(

Sorry.

Talk to her anyway.
Posted 4/9/2015 3:30 PM (GMT 0)
Great Resources Calen...thanks for sharing!!

Wishing you healing and comfort in your grief as well.

I made the links active in your post...that is the only reason for the edit.:)

S.C.
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