When he usually threatens to kick me out over the soda I usually just ignore him. It's my mom whose threats I can no longer deal with...she is the one who threatened because the bath tub wasn't clean.
My mom has many issues although they are undiagnosed. To her a couple things on the floor is a disaster.
Scaredy Cat said...
PB,
TBI, as in traumatic brain injury? Is this a possible reason for his exaggerated responses to you? Threatened to be kicked out because of failure to clean the tub, or fogetting to get someone a soda is unreasonable...
...so there is either more to it, or maybe he has uncontrolled emotional issues due to his injury?
Either way, you need to find a way to either cope with this stress...or find a better situation for your own mental health...
Is there another relative or friend of either yours or your fiancee that you could stat with temporarily...until you can get your own place?
If not, you need to come up with a plan to keep as shielded from family drama as possible, and just do all you can to keep your profile low...and your coping skills strong!
Wishing you the best....and come and vent anytime you need to.
S.C.