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Posted 5/11/2016 3:27 PM (GMT 0)
Starting a new job today. My first attempt back on my feet after leaving my last job to care for my mom u till her recent death. 2 years before that I had to leave the job I had then in order to care for my younger sister until her sudden death. A year before that, I limped along in my job while trying to help that same sister deal with her husband's cancer and subsequent death.
To say I'm anxious about TRYING to work again without some dying is a colossal understatement! Adding to my stress is the worry about leaving my husband unattended, as he is showing signs of dementia and is physically disabled with arthritis. He has not been supportive, in any way, of my going back to work. But, if I don't get out of this house once in a while I will lose my mind. Or worse.
So, I asking any of you who are reading this, to send me any bit of encouragement and support you can muster. I would really appreciate it.
May the heavens rain blessings on us all.
Posted 5/11/2016 3:51 PM (GMT 0)
FTH,

Congratulations on taking this step for yourself today!

Of course this is going to be an adjustment for you and your husband...

...but many great growth experiences do start with some amount of newness and discomfort.

Checking in as often as you can at home will help you both to feel connected, and ease both your minds...

...and using your positive mantras and breathing exercises will keep you calm, and ready to tackle any challenge!

Can I ask what you'll be doing?

With support and encouragement. :)

Hugs and high fives. ..go get 'em!

S.C.
Posted 5/11/2016 4:55 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks, S.C., I'll be at an upscale women's boutique in the resort town where I live. Just part time, having turned down the offer for a full time management position.
Posted 5/11/2016 5:00 PM (GMT 0)
It sounds perfect!

I think you are really going to love it.:)

Report when you can!

S.C.
Posted 5/11/2016 6:03 PM (GMT 0)
Hey dear! Congratulations!!
I think is a good idea it will take your mind off things for a while..
Do you have a helper at home so to take care of your hubby.
But go for it..you will enjoy it...
Try and stay calm

Hugs and big high 5!!!!
Posted 5/11/2016 10:57 PM (GMT 0)
Hi there,

I think the new job sounds like just what you need!! I struggle with anxiety but force myself to go to work everyday because the distraction is helpful...I think you will find the same!

With regards to your husband, perhaps you could hire someone to sit with him for part of the day while you are at work? Or, if he has some good friends in the area, maybe they would be interested in stopping by during the day to have lunch with him? Just a thought.

Lastly, it sounds like you have faced a lot of losses lately...perhaps a bereavement support group would be helpful for you to combat your anxiety?

Either way, I'm sending you encouragement and lots of hugs!!

You'll do great!! turn
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