Hi POtluck. My name is Boomer2uall (Nick). ALL doctors have swore an oath to preserve life and NOT TO ACK LIKE A GOD. I think that this psychiatrist of yours is breaking that oath. I would stay with your doctor that you have been seeing for 29 years, as he/she knows you better.
I would tell your doctor (the one you have been seeing for 29 years) what your psychiatrist told you and I would seek another psychiatrist. I know this does not help your situation, but try not let the stress of this get the better of you.
I hope this helps a bit.
Boomer2uall