Okay heres an update for you all... I went with Anxietyriddens suggestion and tryed that Bachs rescue remedy which I bought at a local supplement store, and I want to say it worked to chill me out, but it did make me just a little "out of it" but I can see how this would work for some people.
I also bought this product called calm-u-nat... which basically is just passion flower... I tried this today in the morning, and so far I really like it, im not "out of it" at all, but I am pretty chilled out, so im going to try this for awhile.
Ill keep ya posted.
-mike
Im also going to buy that book "panic away" that everyone has been talking about so much on this site.
Good luck to everyone