Winter
Hello and welcome to the A & P forum and please feel right at home here. My hubby has Crohns so I know about the bathroom issues and the anxiety.
He has a schedule and anytime he has to deviate I can tell he is anxious. He refuses to ask for anything from his Doc as he is a guy you know.
Airplanes are always tough for him so I try to make sure the flights are short, 3 hours at most. He is also a smoker so he white knuckles it when we are flying.
Valium may be a good drug for your anxiety..........2 mg is usually just enough to take the edge off and most people don't get loopy.
Something to visit with your PCP about.
I look forward to getting to know you better.
Gentle Hugs
Kitt