I don't know how to deal with my situation. My husband doesn't understand my anxiety, so when I'm having a panic attack and I snap at him he thinks it's the same as when he loses his temper and yells at me with a hateful tone. I can't leave him cuz I have nowhere to go. I don't want to leave him most of the time, but when he yells and loses his temper I just can't take it. He doesn't even try to understand my anxiety or how I act when I'm panicking. Is there any literature online that I can show him to maybe help him understand what I go through?
If I can't fix this, I'm getting a divorce and I will take my 1 year old daughter to a homeless shelter if I have to. I just don't want to be with someone who doesn't even try to understand my problems, and how I struggle with them everyday. He doesn't stress about anything, so he can't relate to my feelings. I just don't know what to do. I don't even feel like he likes me sometimes, let alone love me. I feel so alone right now. And a lot of the time.
Will no one offer advice here? I see that people have seen this, but I have no replies. I thought this was supposed to help.
Post Edited (MizMoon) : 5/18/2010 7:35:06 PM (GMT-6)