Hi,
I'm new to this so bare with me. I'm in a married 2 years, I suspect that my husband might have some kind of personality disorder. Please let me know if it's me loosing my mind...
You see, If I'm not acting perfect like always smiling, giving him constact security or constantly pleasing him*...he withdraws from me. So here I am not knowing what I did wrong and when I ask him and tell him nicely that he is acting different to please let me know if there's something that we should talk about. He becomes angry and starts exagerating about my mood...
It has happended in several occasions and we have separated. Recently I got into a car accident and had to take muscle relaxers at night. For about 4 days I was a bit irritable (i swear) not to the point where I was horrible, I would also fall sleep very fast. Well, he started acting weird again and now I come to find out that the felt that I was mistreating him and started telling me that he feels like the idiot of the relationship...
I just want him to communicate with me how he feels when I hurt him so i can fix the problem. He is blaming me for side effects of that crappy medication and irritibility. I work and go to school full time. I drive an hour to get to work and another hour to get home(some times more) I drive a stick shift and it irritates my shoulder more. All I did last week was come home and literally pass out from meds.
I was irritalble and when I read side effects I stopped using the meds. I'm constantly walking on egg shells and feel i'm never good enough for him....
Please advice..I feel so terrible
*I altered your post to make it all age appropriated as we have minors that visit the forum
S.C.
Post Edited By Moderator (Scaredy Cat) : 12/27/2011 10:42:50 AM (GMT-7)