Gator Girl,I am sorry to read you are having problems with anxiey and I understand exactly how it feels.
The recommend dose of Lexapro is 10 mg - 20 mg daily. The medication may cause cause insomnia for some people so perhaps taking it in the morning would work better for you. You did not post what dose you are taking of Trazadone.
I agree with SC, you have had a lot going on and switching medications is always a stress for people with anxiety so give yourself and your body sometime as well as follow up with your Pdoc.
You may also want to try keeping a journal re what you are doing when you start to feel very anxious. I would suspect with a baby in the house it is difficult getting a full night's sleep so remember to nap when your baby is napping.
Don't forget to practice the breathing exercises from our resource forum at the top of the page.
Kindly,
Kitt