Life

I know it's never to late to get ahead I ask myself what is wrong with me,why am I 28years old with no kids . And I have nothing to my name&I have a 23year old neice with more then I do&she has two kids,I sometimes let my sickness hold me down true sometime it's hard to get out of bed because of no energy&extra tired then have a mind that plays tricks on me. At a job seven years&hold myself back because I think I may mess up&I don't like to mess up,are lose I fight but not hard enough. Life Iam here but need to live&be free for Iam extra smart but need a lil more courage,when it's time for me to retire I want comfort I shoukd be able to have good things in life&extra money to spend&no paycheck to paycheck living I want the husband,kids,two dogs and a house with two cars I want all of that& more just not understanding late start& ppl judging me and most of all my half sister. Ready to take a break with live from her because things aint been the same soncr sje act so ugly& mean to me over money. I pray for better&better I will het maybe dping forums to see if I can keep mind clear.

28 is just too young to feel like you've missed your chance for all of those things, sweetie!

Life changes and it can do that at any point, friend. I've seen people who had it "all together" at a young age struggle later in life. I've also seen people who didn't have much going on by the time they were 40 blow it UP later in life.

One of my friends is a good example. At 32, I helped her wash change she scrounged through her car for, so she could buy a few canned veggies to make some soup to last the week. (I didn't have any money, either, or I would have bought her groceries!) That sad little car broke down that afternoon and I drove her home to her apartment, where she held a pistol as we walked to her door, because it was SUCH a dangerous place - but the rent was cheap.

Anyway, she's 38 now. In the last two months, she has been on television in six countries. I just "liked" a picture of her on facebook minutes ago, she was holding a glass of champagne with raspberries, with a Coach bag on her shoulder.

You've still got time, friend. Plenty of it. Focus on taking care of yourself first, then you can focus on that worldly success.

Love ya!

I have an auntie who is already in her 50's with no husband and kids. She's so happy and able to make the best out of her life. Even if she doesn't have her own family and lives by herself I can't say she misses or lacks the thing called 'LOVE" cause she have her sisters/brothers, mom who is still alive, friends and a pet who she can be happy with. I can see her not faking a smile in their gatherings. I see her being contented and feeling grateful with what she have in life even if she sleeps by herself alone at home. She also have a strong faith in God which I think makes her life seem perfect. My aunt has a good personality and I love her and enjoy her company.

I just passed by to say I enjoy reading your posts and I think you deserve to be happy! And to tell you you're not alone in this world. The time will come when you'll be able to have the life that you've always wanted... ...in God's time. And if ever it will not turn out the way you wanted, don't ever lose your faith in Him, cause God loves us more than we'll ever know and feel.