Mindy,
You wisely posted a sentence in your thread, "i hope i am not being too religious here and that i am allowed to write these things on this forum. just telling what has worked for me, blessings to you and yours" I will allow this thread to remain for now.
Faith is personal - it is each person's right and responsibility to come to some understanding of the Divine. Or not. It is so very private. I have no problem with anyone's right to choose their own path, however per the rules of the forum limited religious references are allowed.
No posts of an overtly religious nature OR posts promoting advocacy of particular personal, religious, political, or non-profit causes. The forums are intended for offering mutual personal support. Limited religious references are allowed (ie. "my prayers are with you" or a brief quote as part of a larger post).
Kindly,
Kitt