How Long.

Know this not the place to post this but kinda need advice trying to find out how long after relationship should one be tested for everything and get a accurate answer?

Soul,

I believe it is 12 weeks for HIV if that is your concern...

For other STD's, consult with your OBGYN as there may be different windows of incubation.

However, if you don't have concrete reason to be concerned...meaning if he is not confirmed infected...try not to worry yourself into a panic. Definitely be tested, but just as a precaution.

For the future, using condoms every time will lower/eliminate your risk, and worry.

I am sorry that you are going through all of this difficulty with this situation. Know that we support you!

S.C.

Soul,

If I may be so bold as to make a bood recommendation for you...

...this could be the best (under) $10.00 you ever spend. This book clearly outlines the immense worth of self and the woman's soul. Very healing and empowering!  Capivating by John and Stasi Eldredge

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I am about to read through it again. If we lived closer...I'd just let you borrow it!! :)

S.C.