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Posted 1/17/2015 8:07 PM (GMT 0)
I was brought up in a Lutheran household but my parents were never consistent in taking me to church. No praying before meals. Church was for Easter, Christmas, and funerals. But Everytime we visited my grandparents, praying was such an integral part in their days. Before every meal. Before bed. And throughout the day. Their faith is so strong, and their relationship with God is a beautiful thing.

I may mot be thoroughly christian but I'm wanting to develop a relationship with my faith.

What are your relationships with faith? If you feel comfortable discussing
Posted 1/17/2015 10:45 PM (GMT 0)
Blu-
Now is a good time to embrace your faith

I don't belong to an organized religion although I was brought up Catholic.
I don't go to church but I feel very close to God. I don't think you need to be in a church to pray. I pray all day long. Not memorized prayers- it's like I'm talking to God all day long like a friend which He is. I don't know how I'd get through my days if I didn't have the belief that He is with me and will take care of me. I feel like I have a personal relationship.

On my drive to work I'll pray about anything that's bothering me-just pretty much like talking to your best friend saying what's wrong, how you feel, asking for direction and strength. I may pray for my family and friends (HW friends too!). I also thank Him for all the good things he has provided me in life and especially thank him for times when I felt hopeless and upset about something and prayed about it and everything turned out ok.

I also do this here and there throughout the day.

When I go to bed I do the same. If I wake up anxious in the middle of the night- I ask Him to wrap his arms around me to keep me safe. I then start to pray for people I know are going through rough times as well.

I wish you all the best with finding your personal relationship with God. Just tell him what's on your mind, ask for his help in what you're struggling with, ask for direction and strength for you and your family during this sad time. Ask that he stays close with your grandmom and to give her peace as he gently brings her home.
Posted 1/18/2015 1:03 AM (GMT 0)
RA,
That's a beautiful way to put it and it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.
Posted 1/18/2015 2:12 AM (GMT 0)
I was brought up in a Methodist household, and I'm an atheist. My mom's a zealot, and she *really* doesn't like that. Another thing that plays into my family issues/depression.
Posted 1/18/2015 2:24 AM (GMT 0)
Mama, i rarely Pray for myself i try to give my future to God to deal with,

When i am having a rough time i start Praying for other People, mostly people on HW, i am not a Saint
not even close but this makes me feel better,

In the public i ask God to heal everyone i notice that has a problem, who knows, i do know this, not to Pray will not cure my problems or anyone else's,

"I developed my Faith in the military, it was the source of my strength". Peace to everyone.

Larry ***
Posted 1/18/2015 2:46 AM (GMT 0)
Oh boy, this conversation could get prickly very fast.

Weary's post reminded me of an interesting book called "Conversations with God." It touches on what was said about just having a conversation instead of repeating someone else's words. It encourages a more personal interaction with your chosen faith/deity.

IMHO, I don't think the building you go into, the book you use, or what you call god changes the effect that faith can have on a person. If you believe then believe... use that as a resource to make your life better. Belief can be a powerful asset and we all need strong assets to get through this life.
Posted 1/18/2015 3:27 AM (GMT 0)
I was raised Methodist but only went to church regularly when my parents were married.

Now I say I'm a Christian, but I am trying to understand what it is to be a Methodist because I want my son to know.

After my experience this summer and all the events following, I trust God and I know He knows what's best for me. He allows challenges to be presented in my life for a reason and learning that was a game changer for me.
Posted 1/18/2015 4:30 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Blu's,

There comes a time in everyone's life where they are seeking a deeper meaning, asking questions...wanting to fill the spiritual part of us that we all have.

I encourage you to do so through finding what place of worship you feel most comfortable in.

My husband and I came from really different backgrounds...both christian, but really different demoninations.

We tried each other's churches, but ultimately found one of our very own...completely different from either of our upbringings.:)

You mentioned relationship in your post...and you could not have put it more perfectly. It has everything to do with our relationship...not religion, or demonitation, or anything else. It is where we experience God/higher power, and feel the most comfort.

Peace and blessings in your journey of faith!

S.C.
Posted 1/18/2015 6:12 AM (GMT 0)
SC,
Thanks for your input. It is most certainly a journey. I find myself praying a lot lately and I already feel a relationship budding-- it's a beautiful thing. My grandma told my mother just last night that she hopes that as I grow older, she hopes that I allow my faith to take root and grow. And I want to fulfill that not only for her, but for me. Whatever route that may be.
Posted 1/18/2015 1:01 PM (GMT 0)
Hey Blu!
I am not a religious person myself but I have faith. It's just I avoid picking one religion and believing just in that. I try to accept all as a whole, since they came from the same source. I think respect and love is the most important for me. My parents are religious but not too strict. My husband is pretty much the same as me. He is not religious but he knows that there is something going on out there xD hehe

I am more like on the spiritual side of the faith-line LOL, though there are many questions I asked and still do ask about faith and life itself. It is a very beautiful thing to believe in a force, that holds everything together. Some people may call it God but I try not to give it a shape or personality. For me, it's everything that exists.

Respect is the most important thing for me, being able to live in harmony. It doesn't matter others are religious, atheist or something else.
I have nothing against praying. I do send "prayers" as in positive wishes for my HW friends and my family. These are positive thoughts and good wishes. They are nice :)
Posted 1/18/2015 1:01 PM (GMT 0)
Blu
What a wonderful gift your grandma gave you with her words! As your faith takes root and grows-she will be living on within you!
Posted 1/18/2015 1:54 PM (GMT 0)
i adopt a way of life that is purposeful and healing. the name is irrelevant as it is encompasses all, rather than one form of religious practice.
Posted 1/20/2015 5:28 AM (GMT 0)
Faith / Religion play a Huge role in my life .

I grew up in a very religious household , my Grandmother and Mom introduced me to this life at a very young age and I feel blessed , they taught me how to pray , they brought me to Church , they showed me traditional ways and values and more . My country is very religious aswell , over 95% is Catholic so its part of my culture aswell and I have great pride in this .

I have a Great relationship with God , I feel very comfortable talking about anything with me and pray is like meditation for me , it clears my mind of any negative thoughts , it relaxes me and makes me reflect on life . I have joined a Rosary group when I was in elementary school and it has always been a part of my life .

Unfortunately I think there is alot of evil in this world and alot of people are turning away from religion , its a shame . A youtube channel I love to watch is called the Vigilant Christian

https://www.youtube.com/user/TheVigilantChristian

His videos are Amazing and I strongly encourage anyone to view a few of his videos , they are a real eye opener , they tells you what is really going on in this world and its not pretty . When I find something useless I like to share it with others , hopefully someone watches his vids and it will change their lives .

God gave us all free will so we can do whatever we want , unfortunately some people use this free will to do evil on others . I try to stay Positive , everyday I always count my blessing and Thank God for the things most Important to me like my Family .

Currently Im battling with Depression , Anxiety , Panic Attacks and maybe a whole lot of others stuff I dont know about yet but Im still staying Positive , I know I will get through all this eventually . I pray everyday for God to give me strength to move forward in life .

Everyone who believes in God has a different relationship with God , everyone has a different journey and beliefs , I would recommend you spend time getting to know yourself first and explore many options , do research , look into what others believe , experiment and then you will find what is best for you .

Im Catholic , yes I do know that there are some problems in the Catholic Church but humans do make mistakes and are not perfect , but this should not reflect badly on the Religion .
Alot of young people nowadays like to say they are more spiritual then religious but in my opinion you need both , you need to go to Church and hear the teachings of Jesus in order to gain a better relationship with God , you have to know what he teaches and use him as an example to live your life .

Oh wow , I really talked alot here , sorry for my rambling , I just feel very passionate about my Faith :)

I hope everything works out well for you and good luck on your journey ! God Bless : )
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