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Posted 3/15/2015 3:04 AM (GMT 0)
I have had anxiety since I was little, but after a traumatic relationship seven years ago it has gotten unbearable. I've learned to accept and manage it, with the help of my service dog. But it's the people closest to be that don't seem to understand. My family keeps telling me to get over it, that if I had a better attitude it will go away. And as much as I am used to them saying these things, it still hurts. I have my good days, bad days, and extremely bad days and now coupled with chronic pain, it's really hard. I really just wish they understood.
Posted 3/15/2015 4:56 AM (GMT 0)
Pinkie,
Welcome & thanks for posting. Sometimes it's hard for people who don't suffer from anxiety to relate to anxiety sufferers. That's why its so important to network and connect with people who do! This forum is awesome & provides amazing support.
Post here when you can!
Posted 3/15/2015 5:47 AM (GMT 0)
Hi PB and welcome!

I am really sorry to hear about your anxiety challenges, and the lack of understanding from some people...:(

I find that posting here really helps me to relate to others, and find the understanding and validation that I need.

We are all joined together here in our common struggles, experiences and victories...so post with us anytime you'd like to share or need some lifting up! :)

Looking forward to getting to know you better!

Scaredy Cat
Posted 3/15/2015 4:26 PM (GMT 0)
Pinkie,

I normally don't post in this forum. I post in the fibromyalgia forum. Just wanted to let you know my family tells me the same thing. I get well you look good, if you push through you can get over this and many others.

It's very hurtful and I'm learning to live with it. I'm sorry you're having to go through it too. It really sucks!!

One of my fellow posters in the fibro forum said fibromyalgia is an up hill battle but at least we'll look good on the climb!!

I love that and next time a family member says something hurtful I'm going to thing of that and laugh to myself.

I'm sending you lots of healing thoughts and prayers.
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