Hi Beale,
I am going to print the link to Melissuh's post, with my response in it...as you both are having the same experience it seems!
https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=9&m=3409889
If you need suggestions for self-help coping skills, see our Resources at the top of the main page here...or just ask, and I'll be happy to post the link directly for you!
Best wishes!
S.C.