uggh PTSD

since my mom died-after the feeling like the burden was lifted tying up loose ends has become very stressful
reverse mortgage company playing games- lawyer says they will make sure you are always 1 day late $1 short and will foreclose don't worry about it but I do- what if I don't get down there to empty "the contents" of the house and they change the locks on the door
anxious about clearing the house because thats all I have left of my deceased parents- its all so final all of a sudden
transfer of title of her car seems insurmountable since she didn't sign the title and we live in separate states
husband having medical problems which preclude us from going down and taking care of business
I must have faith
I got thru 5 months of her care afar and it all worked out
so will this
just hoping it doesn't put me in the poor house