All, its been a while so I figured I'd update my situation and thank everyone for their help again http://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=13&m=1093710 We have been NC since early April...
LFW Yes, it does make sense to me. It is very hard, but I have started to really live my life for me the last couple of weeks. I still miss her, and still wish I knew what to expect (it has been 3...
Welcome VB programmer. I am too a programmer. Welcome....
No problem with rambling. What helps me is to take things one step at a time. The simplest steps are usually the best steps. Long walks help me so much. I am sorry I cannot give any insight as to...
Thank you very much for the help. I am going to give myself another week or two, and then if I am not doing much better, I think I may see a counselor myself. Right now, my biggest problem is the...
I know my ex's counselor told her that she should stay out of any serious relationships for like a year, but that it was important she stay on good terms with me. She has not had any contact with me...
Will most counselors tell their patient to limit any kind of contact from someone in a situation such as hers?...
Thank you for the kind words. It is helpful for me to talk with others about what is going on. I think I am having the hardest time with the comprehension of how someone can one day look you in the...
Thank you for the welcome. Optimally, I would like to have the opportunity to be together with her and help her through whatever she is going through. Even during her worst periods, I always felt...
I am sorry for everything you are going through. I think in a situation where children are involved, you have to put them 1st. (Take this thought for what it is worth because I do not have kids) I...
Thanks for the reply. Her parents (dad especially) HATE me for really very trivial reasons, so I don't think calling them would be a good idea. I will probably leave her alone for a few more weeks,...
How much time do you feel is a good amount of time for me to give her so I don't seem like I am bugging her? I last spoke with her last mon....
Thank you very much. It has only been a month, and I have been nothing but kind to her whenever I could be. She is living with her dad + frequently stays in touch with her grandparents, so I know she...
Thank you very much for the reply. I've always let her know that I'd be willing to help her through whatever she wanted and that I'd be there for her. I made the mistake of sending her a nice email...
Hello, I was recently engaged to a girl for about a year and have dated her for 1.5 years (I am 26, she is 25). She is a very nice, smart girl who has a MBA from a very well known school. Throughout...