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I am starting to realise this and I know it is the right thing to do. He still doesnt get the big picture but my hope for him is that he will begin the long road to helping himself. I have a good...
I do understand and I am sorry you musr be in this pain. I am just trying to take a day at a time. The days are busy but I am really struggling with the nights. I miss him and out silly little things...
Yes they are very supportive, I think I have been the weak link here! It is hard after 39 years to do this I must and I will but it is painful and so very sad....
Hi yes it is pretty terrible. I am having to let go and let God do whatever he sees fit. I am hearbroken and I dont know if this is permanent. If he doesnt go into tretment it will be Of that I am...
/community/emoticons/blush.gif and I have stood by watching. I have my own bussiness for the past 11 years,thank God! I love what I do and that helps. I also have my dogs which love me...
/community/emoticons/blush.gif him or what I want. I dont want more of the same. It is your life take care of yourself and dont let it all slip away. ...
/community/emoticons/cry.gif it. He said to me the other day he didnt know if he could do it.I told him do it for yourself, You have to help yourself. Should I cut all ties during this time? Or...
/community/emoticons/blush.gif Hey there,I have been in your shoes for 20 years. I can tell you it took me forever to draw a line in the sand but I did. We are separated now and I am hoping he will...
Thank you for your kind words I know I cant stay in this limbo forever but I am afraid to leave hime as it might push him over the edge. I will tell him I love him and I am doing it so he can help...
I am sorry for your pain. I do know how you feel I have that same empty alone marrige. Keep trying if you can but if your heart is broken its ok to take care of yourself. You are entitled to a life...
Thank you for the support,as I sit here tonight he is out drinking. I am going to ask him to move out and focus on himself, I cant do it any more I will always love him and be there for him but I...
I am sorry to hear all of this. I am married to a bi-polar man . He goes in and out of treatment and I have had him committed several years ago. I have held his hand and begged and cried. Nothing...
Hi, I am so sorry for your pain, I do understand. I have been married to a man for 38 years,of which the past 15 have been mostly hell. I keep thinking I can save him but in reality I cant. He has...
/community/emoticons/confused.gif Hi there, I understand your pain. I have been married to a man for 38 years the last 15 which have been a nightmare!! He is bi-polar but starts and stops meds every...