I was wondering if It would be a good idea to send a letter via my ex's support worker, explaining all my feelings my errors and feelings. then he can decide what is best for her at the moment and...
Im going to look up RSD/CRPS symptoms now and will post tommorow after my shift if they seem to fit for me... thanks /community/emoticons/confused.gif ...
loving frustrated wife, Thank you so much for your reply. I think a letter is the option and agree that the importance of her having the choice to read it and digest it or ''toss it'' sounds fair. I...
:-)...
Morning people, I just got up after my night shift at work, it was a really tough night. I had some bad news about my dream job transfer being out of my reach now and all my courses regarding it...
Morning all :-), It's 2 in the afternoon here in the U.K. and i've finally managed to crawl out of my nest after my night working. I stuck the kettle on and came straight on here and all I can say is...
Right im heading off to work for the first time in 3 weeks, ready to face a 12hr night shift and the pain associated with it. I just wanted to say thankyou for giving me the mora courage to face my...
I'm off to get ready for work for first time in 3 weeks, ready for a 12hr night shift. Thankyou for all your support and giving me the courage to face this and start dealing with it....
She is getting support tomorrow but im so scared. It is like dajavous from the first time she got ammitted. All the same signs and actions. When she was last admitted they said she was in a state of...
Hi, I just wanted to say that I undersatnd your situation and my heart goes out to you. This lot on HW are brilliant and say it like it is form personal experience. You find not only the sufferers...
Dear Okonner, The support you gals and guys offer is amazing. I understand fully the link to the chronic pain and depression as mine too is closely linked. The pain and being told nothing is wrong...
I just reread what i put.... I meant I feel like I would be getting in her way of her having a better life. Im dreading going to work tonight and having this going over and over in my mind for 12hrs....
Hi 'Shy', Thankyou for finding time to reply to be thread. I use three forums on HW... The Bipolar Forum - to try and understand the depths of the illness and get my head around the mistakes I made;...
Hi everyone, Im asking for your help please find time to help me be the best man I can for my Ex. If you read my two posts yesterday you will see I am the ex partner of the most brilliant woman I...
Hi everyone, Thanks so much for your posts, Firstly i'm down near Portsmouth in the south of the U.K. It's so nice to touch base with people who uunderstand. It sounds like im the the least affected...
karen, I live in the u.k. so have just got out of bed and woken up to your message waiting for me. I like that saying it makes you stop and think. I'm beginning to finally have the motivation to...
PaLady, Thank you and catch you around no doubt, HW really is a fantastic place full of brilliant people....
Karen, I've heard similar words with the same meaning before the scary thing is it was from my ex last night. Your both right and as i'm learning to realise it's oh so true. It's been hard to love...
Hi everyone, I have been using healingwell for sometime now although not on this forum. I usualy use the depression or bipolar one but noticed this earlier and thought id drop in to say hello. Im a...
Scrapbooklady, Thankyou for your reply, hey were not alone but still it feels like this could never happen to anyone else I know. Please don't be offended but it's good to read others stories and...
karen, Thanks for your kind words again. Rest assured I will be seeking the help I need that is three of you who have suggested it now (one of whom being my ex). It's so easy to blame myself when I...
:-) No offence taken. That sounds like a good idea. I know im strong enough to be by her side through this ive come this far im not throwing in the towel just yet. But I will spend a while finding my...
Serafena, Thank you for your advice it helps so much talking to someone who has been where she is. Its so hard to try and find the right thing to do at any given moment but she is worth the steep...
Serafena, Sorry about the length of the post..... point noted and wrist smacked I promise :-) Im just scared that by printing this out she will think I have not listened to what she has said or that...
Serafena, Hi ya long time no see, you've been such a help in the past with your advice for myself as a partner and her family. It's so nice to hear from you thank you for finding time to reply to me....
Hi karen, Your words make sense and make me feel pleased that despite my mistakes I tried my best. I'm not pretending to be her guardian angel or Mr perfect but I really did try. It's so hard...
Hi ya littlebit73 :-)...
I text my ex that I managed to leave a post... She replied ''Good Good''... I can't stop crying... I want to get better and be there for her... I want to be strong.... I don't want her to see me like...
I know this is'nt the Bipolar forum but i'm so depressed and since writting the post previous I have decided to write my story and put down in this post the things I wish i could say to my ExPartner...
I've been on here before as i'm the ex-partner of my soul mate who suffers from Bp, you won't recognise my log-on though as I used to go on the Bipolar Forum. I've not used the site for sometime as I...
mom2four, Thank you just wish I had a second chance at it...
Since writting the post previous I have decided to write my story and put down in this post the things I wish i could say to my ExPartner who suffers from Bipolar, the things I wish I could have...
Hi everyone, I've been on here before as i'm the ex-partner of my soul mate who suffers from Bp, you won't recognise my log-on though. I've not used the site for sometime as I wanted her to have...
Thankyou both for your comments... it means a lot to hear it from someone not related to the situation! I wrote my partner a letter explaining my failures and my side of be a carer about two weeks...
Glad ya doing ok and found bit of help from everyone here.... Your never alone just got to know where to look hey lol. Good luck Tunny...
I can't pretend to imagaine how hard it must be, but I know there is an answer waiting for you and with the professionals help you will be just fine. See what your dr says and make sure you tell her...
Hi again Ladybug, I'd agree with sukay on this one... Don't put it off get your bum down to the support network that you already have inplace and speak with them and explain your symptons... It will...
Hi again Ladybug, Darren is very right in his signs of Bipolar, from a partners point of view I saw many types of change as my partner was in her deepest depths of fighting the illness. Here are a...
Having Read my previous post you will realise I have a growing interest in Bipolar Disorder and really want to help anyone I can after failing the one person who needed me most... The best answer to...
Hi all, I just wanted to share something with you all and tell you my story. I have been on here before seeking guidance and found reasurance in yourselves. I was the partner to the love of my life...
Thankyou, My partner was discharged yesterday and is now at home in my care. She is very tired at the moment and just seems to be sleeping a lot, something I think her body probably needs to do. So...
Hi everyone, Please help me as best you can. The site has been recommended to me by my partners family they believe it will help me find some answers and support that im in need of. My partner has...