Hi make1tstop, I have been married to my bp wife for 17yrs and have three children. My wife is also asking for a divorce. I am waiting it out as I think when she comes out of her mania she will...
Hi Serafena, We don't actually have any real money in the account as its so overdrawn. Any money spent is added to our overdraft and has to be within the overdraft limit. I've just got paid so there...
Hi bpspouse, Really sorry you are having such a bad time. Your aren't alone though, this forum proves that. But something I can tell you with complete certainty, you have done nothing that will have...
bpsoshare Yes you are right my wife doesn't have full insight at present. This persists to a certain extent even when she is stable. I've given my wife two weeks money and some extra to pay off the...
Hi mommy.michele and yankeepeaches, You both understand very well the problems with finances. I hate switching accounts as its upsetting to my wife but I have done it and am arranging a weekly...
Hi yankeepeaches / serafena, Thanks for replies. I find it really hard to deal with these sort of issues. I went to the bank today and set-up a new account. All credits / debits are being redirected...
Hi, Can anyone help me with this problem....... I am trying to decide what to do about our joint bank account. This month we just scraped through without breaching the overdraft limit. If its...
Hi Mth, The meds are working but I don't think the mental health team really understand why. It's very much a try it and see approach. But for info I have noticed the following. The Sertraline is a...
Hi Alwayslearning, I've had similar physical reactions as you this time round (stomach ache, breathing and scarily chest pains). Have seen DR and after some tests have been reassured I am physically...
Thanks for the posts. It's good to hear from others who have bipolar. I find it hard separating out what's bipolar and what's a dynamic of our marriage. With the divorce I just wait it out and see...
Hi, Just read the note about introducing myself before I reply on a thread. Oops too late I just did it. Please accept my appoligies. I have joined to get support for myself whilst living with my...
Hi Mth, My story is very similar to yours. My wife is bipolar and was diagnosed five years ago. She had her first manic attack six years ago. I called the Dr on advice from church pastoral care...