Things are on the upswing, and I'm NOT going to let my "estranged" wife bring me down right now. I served 20 yrs in Law Enforcement, and for 16 yrs, I've been a PI, specializing in Criminal Defense...
Been a while for me to check back in, there's a lot on my plate of late. As stated before, my Wife suffers from BP, in the past nearly 5 years, it has progressed and I've tried my best to "handle...
It has been a little while since my last post. My Wife suffers from this disorder. She has a 14 yr old daughter from a previous marriage that is being sucked into this mess. My wife, "K" was in a 30...
King, I haven't been on this forum in several months, but I understand what you are going through. My wife is Bi-Polar, but to what extent I am not sure. This roller coaster has been stuck in the on...
Hi all, Yesterday, I took my wife to her PDoc for the first visit since her return. Initially she went in alone, and then came out so the Dr could explain to me her meds and when to take them. (she...
Well, Last Thursday night, my wife and stepdaughter arrived in FL, exhausted, hot, and ready to rest. She called me as planned to tell me they were here, and I had already told them to come to my...
Update. I ddn't hear from my wife yesterday, and monitored my email today. I received a phone call from her at around 1PM, with a brief comment, that she was "on the way". So apprently she has...
New news.... Last Friday after 4 months I heard from my wife by email. We exchanged mail for nearly 5 hours. She was still restricted by the Shelter...so had to cut it short. I didn't hear from her...
No, it may make you feel so, but that is what many of us that are the spouses of someone that really needs help. Your support is necessary, even when things are really down, and you feel like giving...
Update, Yesterday evening I received a "comment" on my blog for MySpace. Since this matter began, along with this forum, I have kept those friends and family updated on what's been going on, via a...
Yesterday (Thurs) I went to my local grocery store. Usually I scan the parking lot, for signs of my Wife's family being there. I have only two people in my family that know I am back in Florida, just...
Update. It has been a bit of time for me to get back on here. I made the move to Florida, without my wife's knowledge. I didn't even drive by the shelter to check if her vehicle was there. I left...
Well, I had a fairly long session yesterday. "Debbie", listened as I recalled the whole story, and what was going on with me of late. Having someone independantly confirm my opinion helped to some...
As for me, things are no better. All that have encouraged me, I thank you. My wife remains at the Shelter, both letters I sent to her returned with her handwriting the "return to sender" There's...
Still trying to hang in there. Things remain the status quo. The second letter I mailed was also returned, un opened, with the "return to sender" in my wife's handwriting. So, I will send no more....
The saga continues, As of Monday, my wife's drivers license was suspended and her tag is now invalid/under seizure order. I had mailed a letter to the Shelter on the 6th, letting her know that it was...
I'm stilll here, Wife remains at the Shelter, with her daughter. I try to "sneak" by every other day, just to see if her car is still there. I assume her daughter is in school locally, I think she...
Hi Serafina, I agree totally. In the past year, while she was still in Florida, she began a trait that she knows I don't believe in. about a month prior to her arrest last year, she had another...
Hi Serafena, No, I'm not relying on her to help/pay her debt, as I have not been able to for several years. My hope was that her mood had moved to a more rational/responsible point, and that she...
Going on prior history, when she has "moved out", she will pack non essential items, more for the activity than the necessity. She will discuss each and every detail with her daughter. It's rarely a...
Things are still idle. I have found out some things, others remain more of a question of when. She was at the local Rescue Mission, which of the three local, it was/is by far the best. Her CW there,...
Thanks all, I kinow the drill about not being able to force one against their will. Even if I resort to involuntary commitment, there is no guarrantee that she would be receptive to the treatment....
While "ggogling" I found that particular book. I immediately went to the local book store, sat and read through the contents, and a bit of the first few chapters. I'm not BP, but my wife is....
My wife suffers from Bipolar disorder, although she has not been completely diagnosed. I first met her when she was in High School, some 37 years ago. We dated for nearly three years, but after I...