Hey ImDealing, Do you think what the others are saying is true--that you're afraid to move out of your comfort zone and move on? As for my own situation, I can say yes, I am afraid to move on. But I...
I'm no expert on either bi-polar or relationships, but it doesn't seem like this is a relationship you can comfortably enter into. You might just consider being a friend to him and trying to put...
Hi Concernspouse, I just wanted to say that I applaud your decision to recover your self-esteem and broken energy. I know myself what it feels like to have a broken self-esteem and energy. Hearing...
Hey ImDealing, I was just wondering about your situation--what it's like now? One thing that struck me about your post was the statement, "Please help me." I know what that feels like -- the...
I like this Red Lightning, makes me smile. 1. I'm good at grilling 2. I'm a good friend 3. I'm pretty good at softball...
Red Lightening, While I don't know what it feels like to have BP (my wife has it), I can assure you that the illness isn't your fault! It's not good to blame yourself for something you have no...
Hi MGS, I feel for you. I was in a similar situation, except my wife went ahead and had an affair. In your case, it sounds like you're doing everything you can do as a loving spouse. Don't forget to...
Thanks for your responses, everyone. Your words encourage me; they give me strength and perspective. Serafena, yes, I have had contact with my wife. We talk on the phone almost every day. And yes,...
Hi everyone, I've been lurking in these message boards for sometime now, and I just came to the point where I need to get some perspective from others who may be going through a similar situation. As...