Thanks, these are all good, fresh perspectives. In counseling I have been instructed to say it is not her that is doing the damage, but her disease. I've been advised to not say, "She makes me want...
Reading the other posts on here, I don't think I need to describe what it is like to live with a bipolar spouse. She is finally taking medication, and has sought help to quit abusing alcohol. But...
I'm quite sure my bipolar wife has had affairs, and that at least one is likely on-going. She insists that is not the case, but I have caught her lying about so many minor events that I do not trust...