At least she is trying. I told mine to leave several times and now she holds that against me and that she can no longer trust me. Prior to that she was always threatening me to leave. I finally...
I am right there with you. My wife can go a week or two without incident and BAM! Any little thing can derail her whether small or big. I got sick of walking on eggshells and that's when the real...
You are not alone my friend. I have been with my wife 2 years now. I saw red flags early in the relationship and dismissed them. Had I listened to my gut, I probably would not have gotten on this...
Yes I fell for her because she was so full of life and happy and exciting. My kids fell for her too....
She was like you at first MTHatGirl. She tried to control it on her own the first several months we were together. I knew something was up. Things just did not add up.Things didn't really get that...
Are you guys trying to work things out or is it hopeless? I hate give up on her, because when things are good she couldn't be a better wife and stepmom, but when she is in her depressive state it's...
Mt4 thanks again for your input. Being a victim is what she uses as an excuse. Before I started telling her she need help she treated me the same. So I finally started pushing back six months ago and...
Thanks for sharing I am uv as I am not alone in this struggle. My biggest obstacle is not ever knowing who I am coming home to. I get a knot in my stomach when I pull in the driveway....
You are absolutely right mt4, kids come first. I have often found myself yelling at them so they would not set her off and it's not fair to them. I have spent so much time trying to make her happy i...
My wife is bipolar and it seems that whenever there is a fight when i have been pushed to my limits I always tell her to leave, then the entire blame is put back on me. She pushes me to the point I...
Unfortunately there is no way to tell what's going to set her off. This illness is so unpredictable and so is she. One day I am the love of her life and the next day she won't even acknowledge I...
She aknowleges it but won't take any Meds but the remains that if she really loved me she would seek proper treatment. I feel like I am losing my mind. Many people have told me to divorce her...
Thank you so much, I stumbled onto this site and I'm glad I did. The rollercoaster ride has been unbearable at times and after a year of putting up with it I started lashing out at her which is not...
She saw a specialist 2 days ago and did not like what she had to say....
My wife of two years now admitted to me last week that she she knew that she was bipolar. I have suspected and have done alot of research on the disorder over the last year and a half. She has every...
Hello I am new here and just wanted to introduce myself. I am currently married to a bipolar wife, who recently admitted she had bipolar disorder. We have been together two years and it has been...
I am new here and just wanted to say i can relate to everyone that has a bipolar spouse. I have been with my wife for two years and married to her for almost one. I will start off by saying, she hid...