I've experienced your pain as well shocked. I told my story in an earlier thread here. My wife was my girlfriend for over ten years. We lived together for a decade before getting married and shared...
Things have not gone well. She came back, then left again. To be honest I'm not all that sad she left as it was tough to deal with her. Heart is broken. Probably headed for a divorce. Bipolar has...
My wife is bipolar and we are not doing well. Sometimes having a bipolar partner can make feel like you are losing control as well though. That's how I feel sometimes anyway. It can be just as hard...
I just have this gut feeling she's not coming back. I've seen this cycle now enough over four years that certain things are getting predictable. I hope that I am wrong this time, because that would...
A couple of days ago she called me to tell me that she is moving back in labor day weekend, has picked a day to quit smoking, canceled cable at her place, and was ready to work together. We spent a...
Thank you for the response and insight. I know there is no magic bullet for all of this. Update: My wife was rushed in for emergency surgery last week for an issue with her reproductive organs - life...
I said MY therapist said the things above, not hers. I was just looking for some personal insight....
Haven't gone back to marriage counseling yet. I don't think it would help her right now based on how she is acting if that makes sense. I do have some questions for you guys/gals with experience with...
I'm torn between wanting a divorce and running as fast as I can away from this, and trying to help her and save my marriage. I've begged her on more than one occasion to come home and let me help,...
dyates0801, I'm going through almost the exact same thing, except we don't have children. Sometimes I feel like my wife has died, but I'm permanently grieving because some weird version of her is...
I'm a 36 year old male, married for almost 4 years to a woman I've been with since we were about 18. I've read many threads here, and some read like a carbon copy of my now fractured life and...