Hi all She is on no med since a resection 1 year ago, she has had 2 outside relationships since being diagnosed 5 years ago, now she is convincing teenage daughters its ok for her to sleep with other...
Hi all It has been a while since I posted, I'm weeks from a divorce because my claims she does not have a depression problem resulting from crohn's. Does anyone else feel they do not suffer from...
Hi all The disease was diagnosed 5 years ago . resection in Feb09. The granular mucus has become very heavy after sex, has anyone else having the same effect. Currently on no meds thank you...
My wife had a resection in February, she has been unable to gain weight since. She now has severe pain from osteoporosis ending up in er . They told her to go see her GP that the pain had nothing to...
I did this during councilling but it did nothing do to her infatuation with this young guy, now the bind is if I stop doing things it will be used against me in court. Once the kids decide to say...
I am the spouse of a bipolar wife, that thinks nothing is wrong with her but she has had an naffair with someone 17 years junior, filed for a divorce refuse to discuss divorce with myself or kids,...
I am the spouse My wife has had affairs with a man 17 years younger, cut me off, can not control her money spending on clothes and cosmetics, has filed for divorce, wont get help, has crohn's to go...
She only knows I,m the problem , w/ divorce laws in canada the man becomes poor, she works every day but I do laundry, cooking, cleaning aswell I pay mortgage which she believes will still happen...
How low does depression take a person before they seek help My wife was diagnosed w/ crohn's 4 years ago, has had a resection 7 months ago and refuses to take maintenance medications just vitamins....
stronglady sometimes people create their own life senarios then try to blame a spouse or other people. If one does not wish to get help fpr themselves the ruin life for everyone around them. I am the...
safado I have stuck it out for 4 years and it is tough, my wife has crohn's disease to go with it. She will not seek help for the bipolar disorder no one can see the bipolar except myself, Her doctor...
Hi all I'm reading this post as I am going through the exact same thing, my wife filed for a divorce wanting to live a life after 20 years of marriage, 2 teenage daughters and a son in his 20s, she...
All hope is gone the divorce is coming up, my wife refuses to seek help for depression, medication for maintenance of her crohn's, doesnt see anything wrong with her. I now have to raise my head and...
Hello all My wife has severe mental illness due to infidelity and crohn's disease. she filed for divorce 2 years ago and had bowel surgery. life seemed to improve after surgery but all has fallen...
Hi all My wife was diagnosed 4 years ago with crohns, had a resection in feb09. She became severely depressed immediately when diagnosed. She councilled , was informed to get mental help to deal with...
She was on Pentasa for 4 years with no response, but being honest I do not believe she is truly telling her gi how she feels The surgeon told her she could have a regular diet as well...
I have supported her from day one but she has admitted emotional problems but she has blamed me for they since she was diagnosed to the point now she has filed for a divorce saying Im causing her to...
Her resection was 6in. of small and 6in. large she had severe infection after putting her in the er for 24hours. She does not believe she needs professional help even though her doctors know she...
My wife had a resection in February. She claims the GC says she does not require meds for maintenance. Has anyone else been told this. She seems to be going back into a depressed low self esteem...
My wife has crohns disease has anyone else found that their doctors do not interact to support in depressed side effects of the disease. If things are obvious I do not understand why doctors dont...
My wife was on pentasa for 4 years which did little to do nothing, she has developed severe depression problems from crohns in the meantime /community/emoticons/cry.gif She had a resection in Feb....
kitt my wife handles a full time job, goes to church & bible study every week, lets on nothing everything is directed at me, she can eat meals clean house, attend family functions on her side with me...
faithhopelove My wife has done the identical to your husband, she says there was no sex but I have proof, she forgot she had kids, she sat with him he is 17 years younger, bought clothes he told her...
kitt I feel for you, I am seeing what depression does, I have spoke to 2 of her doctors, they cant help unless she asks...
stkitt You are so right, you have recognized it which is the first step, you have sought help, my wife refuses to acknowledge it instead she has gotten in trouble with someone married much younger,...
mom you will understand where my wife is ,she had 6" of her small & large intestine removed in feb.09. Her depression started after an affair originally but once diagnosed with crohns it was...
A councilor detected it when she was advised to see a professional she stopped councilling...
It is amazing to watch someone like this because an second moods change, If she need something done nice, If I suggest something BINGO. The kids even notice but time will tell, I now know if the kids...
ChrisinSea She never appologizes for anything what she does is says dont spend your money I give you money, but if that happens I have nothing to file to the courts and it looks like I'm cuttin her...
She has been told the possibility does exist that more sugery will be required for infection, the doc had a ct scan done last week,...
Loving hubby I.m in almost the exact situation my wife has been involved with someone 17 years younger she ended counciling because she said she was in love with this married man, sat with him while...
We sleep at opposite ends of the house, her illness as I seem to be able to read when she is bad, if she needes something she calls me at work, I do 95% of the laundry. all the vacuuming &...
We are 20 years married, she still claims she never was intimate with him but she left the comformation for the motel on her computer and info in the car along with douche. the girls are 15 & 17....
Hi Jenn The crohns came first, then 2 years later she filed for the divorce, BUT nobody knows when the affair started with him who was 17 years younger, the strange actions started as soon as she was...
Christinsea I fully understand what you are going through, my wife refuse to admit BP, she has been involved with a man 17 years younger ,refuses to get involved in family activities, filed for a...
Hi all. Mentally she is more calm but still thinks she can control everyone. The problem now is the lawyer says she has to stop divorce proceedings before the legal system time frame forces her into...
Hi All The resection is done. They have not put her on any maintenance meds until they determine if another surgery is required due to her being back in hospital with infection 2 weeks later. She has...
Sammies I tried talking to 2 of her doctors and they can do nothing unless she asks and she feels she has no problems. both doctors and her councilor admit she has a emotional problem which they feel...
Hi all She has had her resection, but is still sick every day, it has been 5 days. Do doctors ask about state of mind or did you have to bring it up? She has suffer 8 years plus. Her seretonin level...
Hello All I have a wife with crohn's that I believe is Bipolar , She goes through spells wher everything is my fault until she wants something then I am suppose to jump. We have attended councilling...
Yes this is the first resection, the surgeon already tried to tell her it is going to be slow recovering, she has never had major sugeries before so we will wait and see...
Hi all my wife has fought severe crohns for 4 years, she is now scheduled for a resection, during preop were hormones and B12 checked how long were you in hospital, how long did it take before you...
Hi all my qestion is how long after the resection did you notice your life was really turning around to normal, my wife has battled 4 years now she is going to have a resection, do they check b12 and...
Glad to hear your better, my wife is going for a resection feb.6, she believes she will be up and running in no time but it has been very difficult dealling with her mentally, and not eatting she has...
No she is keeping everything to herself, she had an emotional affair with a male 17years younger that appears to have gone south after a one night stand I'm told. She goes off the handle for such...
Thanks all Her crohn's right now is not good, she does not eat well, she get confused and tired very easy. She does not really communicate her feelings to me but I cann tell by reactions she has to...
Yes my wife was on predisone,in the beginning for 3 months 4years ago, the effects were substantial weight gain,helluciation,hair growth, self esteem problems that had her involve in extra marital...
Hi all My wife has severe crohn's. She is scheduled for preop this week. Did anyone find extreme mental problems before surgery, that changed after. She has gone 4 years on Pentasa. Lost upto 40 lbs...
Serefena Due to legalities, the divorce prcess is very slow, otherwise I will be the loser big time. /community/emoticons/sad.gif ...
Hello everyone My wife has severe crohn'n disease and is bipolar. She has gotten herself into a relationships with a man 17 years younger believing he is the love of her life even though he is...