catman, i appreciate the concern, you are right i probably should get some counselling. And i will try to look after myself more. Don't get me wrong though, most of the time my S/O is very caring and...
momwithteentude- that is an interesting point you make, i had not thought of it the other way around. It must be hard for you trying to explain that you want the intimacy without the sex. we have had...
Thank you for an insightful post. I have made a promise to myself to always be there for my man, and i will always do my best to try and understand what he is going through. It is hard at times, and...
Karen, no he isn't mean or aggressive, just cold and inward. He won't let me hold him, he won't talk to me, if i try and talk to him he just says i don't understand. When we argue (which isn't very...
it is confusing because all other aspects of our relationship seem to be ok, we still have flirting and hugs and kisses (unless he is having a bad day), so why not sex? I don't know how to broach the...
reading some of these posts it is as if i have written them myself. It is so comforting to know that i am not alone. My S/O will be so loving and committed to me one moment, and then will push me...
hi all, My S/O has depression and i am aware that depression can cause a loss in libido. But recently he just seems completely uninterested in sex, which is something that worries me because we have...
hi i am new to this site but am so relieved to find somewhere that i can talk about everything. I feel i should not talk to my friends or family because it would be betraying my boyfriend. my...
this really struck a chord with me. My boyfriend of 4 years has depression, and frequently pushes me away. On good days, and for most of our relationship he is very loving and we have a very close...