Thank you, Karen. How can I contact you?...
Karen; How were you able to cope with your first husband being super-controlling? About myself today : I'm feeling a bit weird about all this. My partner is super nice to me. . . This doesn't happen...
Love it. I just tweeted that. <3...
Welcome to the forums! :-) We have such amazing people here....
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This sounds like a situation my sister-in-law is going through right now with her husband. She actually gave her husband an ultimatum (by telling him she wanted a divorce and that she was fed up with...
Oh I agree with you right there. God bless and good luck with your job search!...
I can't find a stinking job. I've been applying like there's no tomorrow. What's worse, I have a disability and NO one is willing to accommodate me. I'm north of Rochester, NY....
I am dealing with that right now with my own husband. He is really insensitive to my feelings and is dealing with his own bout of "depression" too. So it really strains our marriage. I wish I had...
Thank you for the support, Siobhan. I really appreciate it. From what I see with my husband and his parents... His parents have this odd influence on him, which may explain his behavior. Yes, I know,...
I'm starting to notice that my husband is beginning to be more affectionate. I think this is a good thing, right?...
Thanks, Karen! :)...
I have thought about going myself, but... I hate driving on that interstate, it's a four or five hour drive....
Karen, I love cooking for him. I don't mind everything else, I grew up grocery shopping, doing my own laundry and helped my mom with the house-keeping. I guess I have an odd question. This has been...
@ Karen :: I kind of feel bad if I complain to him about our relationship being two way, and not just me doing all the work in maintaining it. I mean, he's the one working all the time in order to...
@ Karen :: When do I know I'm doing too much for him? @ Siobhan :: I'm glad to hear I cheered you up. I hope I can continue being a friend and a support buddy for you....
I go out of my way for him ALL the time. I get up with him at 6:30 in the morning, I pack in his favorite candy, I get his stuff ready and I give him a big ol' wet kiss before he goes. He hates...
@ cinnamon10: He has gotten help before and is on anti-depressants. I think it's just ME because I'm supposed to be a positive influence in his life, and I have not been positive lately, so I blame...
What do I do when I feel defeated? :(...
I agree with harleybluz whole-heartedly. You shouldn't be alone. All of us here at HW are here for you, if you ever need to talk. Just remember that. We have amazing people here....
@ Karen :: I'll admit, I'm not embarrassed about being deaf. I just get sad when I can't understand people, and because of their idiocy, they refuse to help me understand the conversation/what they...
@ Siobhan :: We went to our pastor for some counseling before and after our wedding day. It benefited him greatly, but I don't think counseling is helping. I wish I could slap some truth into him....
I'm so sorry to hear that, Jamie. I'm glad she's all right (apart from these injuries). It is very scary to have a family member in a nasty accident like that. I'm praying that things look up for you...
Hi guys, The weekend went a bit better than I thought. I tried not to be so whiny. It did seem to help. But... I still have these crazy feelings about my husband. At one point, I kind of wanted to...
That link doesn't seem to work, Karen. :( However, it did redirect me to this: http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome. Thank you for that website. I'll be sure to try it out. My husband can be rough. This...
Thanks for your input, myjoy. :O That actually made me feel a bit better, albeit, it made me cry....
"I get a horrible feeling that I've done something wrong in a friendship, and it sticks in my head, and I go into a dark abyss within a couple of days." You and I are in a similar situation. If you...
"if i ignore you its not because i want you to go away, but its not because i want you to sit their and bother me and get all pissy and make everything worse. you need to learn that im not going to...
Thanks for the support, Siobhan. I will make sure to post what happens....
@ Karen :: Thank you, and he has never made me doubt him in the past. It's his actions lately that is starting to worry me. He deletes text messages (and last night he deleted them in plain view),...
I was diagnosed with mild to severe depression in seventh grade, I guess it stopped affecting me greatly in high school and throughout the first couple of years of college. I had some issues my first...