R N registered nurse. I think when the 2 letters are close together you saw R M. Who knows -I may even go into a field that is totally different. I have learned enough German to get me the correct...
LONDONSCOT- Welcome to the website. There is no easy way around it-grieving sucks. I always like to think of it this way It is easier to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Your ex...
Akram- Thanks, It's like you can read my mind. I'm an RN now, but thinking of going for a bachelor's in that. I'll be a BSRN when finished with school. Or maybe go into anesthesiology. School is...
Hello Everyone! I got to work on time today and just logged on. I am not the everyday reader/poster for this site-but you are always on my mind. Since my last post things have gotten worse. I just...
Els, I met his wife first, and thought she would be good friend material. It only took a few days before I met her husband. We were friends a year before any of this other stuff ever happened. She...
Bluemeanies- I am getting in over my head. I am jealous of his wife all the time. He called me again yesterday and wanted to know if I was still upset with him. I told him I was fine and that I am...
Sea 2 he called and I was out getting my lunch-and I didn't have my phone on me. If I had it on me, I would have answered and told him to lose my #. But since I didn't he already thinks I am so mad...
Dear neurtrans- No I'm not happy with my marriage. I have so many friends that just seem to have the best marriages. I don't know what happens behind closed doors however. I know every marriage has...
Hi Everyone, I rented 2 movies on Sat., and my husband and I spent quality time together. He told me all the things that has been going on in his head. Mostly about bills and $ being tight-I told him...
Kiwigirl, Maybe you are worried about opening up so quickly to him. Don't get me wrong being open with him is the right thing to do. But now you wonder if you told him too much too soon. It sounds as...
jodz--Yes my husband has a daughter. she doesn't live with us. She and I have a great relationship. I've been in her life almost 10 years. The boyfriend has children. Only one with the wife he as...
atedogs-- I'm working on the poop thing. I have honestly never been in this situation before. Military bases are the worst settings for A-OK marriages. If you are pretty and the men know your husband...
Akram you had a lot of good comments. Thanks for your reply. I am giving my husband and I a second chance. I have been checking my cell several times tis weekend to see if there is a message from...
hi jodz Yesterday I really needed a friend someone to open all this stuff up to and you were there for me and I thank you. This boyfriend seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a man. He took me...
Thanks Sea 2 for typing me back. Today is a new day, and I did go out with the boyfriend last night, but even he said it feels like I wasn't much into the date, and that he wondered if it was...
Thanks els for replying. You are right I don't like to be alone. I have been trying to tink of what the boyfriend does for me that my husband doesn't. For the most part he gives me a eadache every...
OK I must be even worse off than I originally thought. I see over 15 people viewed my message, yet none of you feel like replying. Please give me some feedback. I feel all alone. I can't tell anyone...
It's me again. I just looked at my e-mail again and I realize now that most of you think I am a terrible person for being with so many guys while my husband was away. I am a bad person, and my...
Hi Everone, I have been staying away from the site for awhile because I started falling behind in my work. Yes I've been using my computer at work for non work related things. I have had problems...
I don't know how physically fit you are but if you can I would suggest taking a long walk or go to a gym. I've been using an elyptical machine for 30 mins. every other day. And lifting some light...
Been there done that. You didn't go much into why your relationship failed. However I can tell you I spent 5 years with a man and thought we were going to get married. One day he started choking me...
Hey sdguy2547 I just wanted to tell you to do something that you enjoy. It all sounds so crazy, but people sometimes need to be reminded that they are #1. No one is going to tell us this-so we just...
Wellbutrin helps one quit smoking and is also for depression. However your problem is with drinking. Were you always a drinker. I'm not saying you are an alcoholic-just a social drinker. Did you...
I take zoloft now and I haven't gained any weight. Everyones' body reacts differently to medicine. I found that paxil made me gain weight, so I asked to be switched to Zoloft. I know it's crazy-but I...