Rangerdawg75..First off, God Bless you for your service to our country. Secondly, if you want to talk to someone who's gone through this my fiancee would be more than happy to talk...he's made it his...
Sentrase.....My email is on here so if you have any questions on anything feel free to email anytime...My fiancee is the one with the stoma and going to have the J-Pouch next month.....so I can be of...
What brand of bags is he using and are you using any caulk around the hole? The normal bag/flange only needs to be changed every 3 -5 days....there are many products out there to help the 'hold'...