Badbaggirl I have run the gammet of trials and errors and I am also not a big girl. Sex, OH YEA! that is not a problem, I have found many ways around that. Another poster suggested the Hollister line...
In 1981 I had a J-Pouch and 17 months later..... FISTULA! What a horrible thing! At first the doctor thought it was a female problem but alas, when it was opened to drain the smell about knocked us...
I seriously would not reccomend going without. Your ostomy will "go" at will. If you could sit with a plastic lined trash basket under your stoma .... maybe. But so long as you are not having any...
I want to second the suggestion of the Cleveland Clinic. Specifically Dr. Victor Fazio. He is one of the top in his field and he still does Koch Pouches! Always appealing for those fearful of wearing...