I did not want this thread to become a war of words. I respect everyones thoughts and feelings. I started this thread to get some ideas on how to help my son and my wife and I cope with this disease....
Good luck to you. My son will have his J-pouch surgery in April. Sounds like you have a great attitude which will help so much with your recovery...
I was not being insensitive to my sons feelings when I mentioned the self pity. The Dr's have been stressing how important it is for him to start some mild exercise to build strength for the next...
Thanks to all. Some good suggestions. Had a good day today. Got him out of the house for a while. Trying to get him to start some of his school work but he is not ready for that. We have a boxer so...
He is concerned about the j- pouch. Dr has told him about pouchatis. Has anyone here had that and how pain wise does it compare with colitis. Thanks...
Thanks to all who have responded. I tried to talk with him last night. He started the blame game again. At the end of our conversation I told him that I can't begin to understand what you are going...
Thanks for the replies. He has totally withdrawn from friends. He is embarrassed by the bag and does not want to be seen. He ask no questions when we see his GI or his surgeon. We know he needs a...
My son had his colon removed in October. He has a bag to wear until his next two surgeries are complete. He is 17 and is missing his senior year of school. He is angry,depressed, and has zero...