I have not discussed most of this with my mom yet. She can be dismissive bc she likes to get her way for the most part. She really feels she is in charge of him and this is her ultimate solution. But...
My Dad, who was patriarch of our family for many many years - has loved us all well - has provided for many of us - has had Alzheimers for 3 years, and he has good days and bad days. Short term...