Yes..RA does *suck* doesn't it?! I have had it since 2006, sero-negative as well. At one point, I had to tell my rheumy that my pain level was *10* and then he got the hint! Sometimes it is about
getting the right *cocktail* of meds. For me it was Enbrel, Plaquenil and Methotrexate, and I was even going to the gym, it was fantastic! So, it is really about
trial and error. Also, if your rheumy is good, he will treat your pain as well, I also have pain medication for when it gets really rough.
Good luck, I hope you find the right combo of meds!