Welcome Rocckyd. I'm fairly new to having r.a. and just starting on this board. I've found it to be very helpful. I'm sorry you have such a hard struggle with the disease.
My brother has had r.a. for many years, his started as an adult. But it was severe right off the start. Mine just started at the end of May (that I really noticed) and it's definitely taking some getting used to. Mine is not as severe as my brothers. Mine is sero negative. The highest dose of Prednisone I've been on is 30mg and I hated it. I'm down to 7.5mg now for 2 months until I see my physician and we'll go from there. My inflammation on my blood work has gone down so he's keeping me here to make sure it stays gone (I think).
I have 3 children but they are adult children so I'm not having to drive them to sports,etc. I did years of that :)
Again, welcome!