Hi Weary,
Once I got the dx and tried all the traditional meds with little relief like you, I got on Humira. Took a year to get on Humira after initial dx. I had almost instant turn around. Needed ortho surgery on my knee to clean out arthritis, and had some other surgeries for carpal tunnel and shoulder injury, but mostly doing great. It's been at least ten years, but a few years ago Humira stopped working as well so I went on Enbril. It has worked as well, but I had to add methotrexate to get there. So far I have had zero side effects, and it has actually reversed my joint damage. The only real drawback is the cost of co-pay when my assistance runs out, because my insurance only partially covers these drugs. I rarely see my Rheumy, and my regular dr is a P.A.
At this point in my life I really needed to be able to function at a high level as I have a job, a seven year old granddaughter who is with me a lot and my husband has terminal prostrate cancer (I lurk in that forum a lot!)
Hope you can find something good to work for you too, whatever that may be! If you have any questions about
my experience with this dastardly disease, please don't hesitate to ask. My email is also visible. Good luck!
Beth