Hey there Andrea!
Welcome to Healing Well! Sorry I am late in welcoming you to the site, but I see some of our other wonderful members have already made you feel at home!
I am not on Methotrexate (yet) but I am on Enbrel. I'm sorry you are having a hard time. Hopefully soon you will be able to see a rheumy and you may bet started on one of the biologics. I tell you, they have been a godsend for me. Last week my refill was late in getting to me, and I really felt the effects of that... it was awful.
I'm glad you have such a supportive husband.. my hubby is good too... we've all said it before, I think the hardest things for our spouses is the fact that they feel so helpless with this disease 'cause they can't make us feel better... CaMama is right, have your hubby go to the appointments with you, that way if he has any questions, he can ask them, and it will help him to understand and deal with the issues better.
Hang in there Andrea, if you ever need to vent, we are always here... take care and rest easy!
Duck