That's a good idea, something that could soothe both of us.
I've started playing something called "soothing music" for her while she falls asleep. It seems to help relax her.
I know I cannot worry about why she is the way she is. It may have nothing to do with anything except the way she was made. But, we do need to get a handle and understanding why these spells are happening - it could be something simple we can help her through, but we need to figure out what that "thing" is before they get out of hand and she's a even more stubborn teenager.
Thanks!**