Hi Lost in Seattle,
I would like to welcome you to the HW family. I hope you find the support you need here.
I know the feeling, before I found what works for me I went through a lot of different meds. I too hated seroquel, but most of the anti-psychotic do leave you sluggish. I've been on 4 so far, and they all made me almost delireous.
As Mogli said, you should definetly talk to your pdoc about the problems you are having. Plus if Abilify and Lamictal didn't work for you, you should discuss it with your doc to try to find a better solution.
Why were you taking all those meds in 4 months? I hope you don't mind me asking about it. Most meds take 6-8 weeks for their full effects can be felt.