Husband Bipolar 1 mixed manic I need help

My husband is a quiet passive loving caring man when he takes his meds and doesnt drink alcohol. Well With stress and drinking again self medicating he has gone in to what i think is a mixed manic. He hears voices, then will go into deep depression then 30 min later mania, and will go to the mail bog every 10 minutes for 5 hours. He will be kind then 5 min later aggressive verbally abusive throws things then go into depression. This has been going on for 4 weeks. He either takes to much of his meds or not enough. I have Lupus and my health is in the ground. I have no friends my husband only has one and thats it. I am about to fall on my face. They say call the police not so easy I will loose my apartment. He wont go to the hospital does have apt tomorrow with doc but said its because he is a bit moody. I really love this man. Most of the time he is fine with little episodes and not often at all. This has only happened one other time when I first met him and he was drinking and it got real bad. It has been 4 months since he had a drink 4 weeks ago he drank 3 bottles of wine 1 one night then at the end of the week 2 more. He has abused. Any advise I will take anything at all at this point