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Well, I set some boundaries at my work this morning that I know will not make people happy.

But I can do only what I can do and I am not a former employee who did these things easily. It is not in my "job description" and I have to protect my mental health. (I didn't tell them that, of course.

It is an uncomfortable thing to do and makes me very nervous. As a people pleaser, it has been very hard to listen to my heart and to really say what I feel. I am hopeful that I did it in a non-threatening way. It also makes me feel like people will think I am lazy.

That's what they tell me.

I'm setting another one today. Now it will be up to me to maintain the boundaries and not let them quilt me back into doing what they want.

Thanks, Jaimee