Yeah, she's still in. I spent the weekend CLEANING and painting her trailer. It's still a pile of junk, but most of the BUGS, and CAT PEE SMELL is gone. She hadn't washed dishes for weeks. Not eating so food spoiling and rotting. So sad. I was there 4 weeks ago to help out, hung up a white board and a couple other things like that. I don't think she did anything since then!
She told me something when I visited that made me a little happy inside. She told me that I had "planted the seed" when I started asking her if she was depressed. I wasn't guessing, I know her, I know her depressed, and I know depression. She can be crazy stubborn, so it was the best I could do. It worked eventually. :/
Ruminating on so much. Taking me a long time to get over all this. My fiance doesn't get it. He says, "You're always recovering from something." What he DOESN'T know is I didn't just go and sit there hold her hand, theen go play with me niece and nephew who were visiting my parents. No, I worked my tail off ALL day Saturday, worked until 1 am. Then went to crash at my parents and was so ... I don't know how to describe ... I needed to "decompress" I guess is the best way to say it. I didn't sleep til after 2. Then back to working on cleaning and painting first thing Sunday morning. Really pushing to make good progress so I could visit my family, then rush home because it's a school night.
Then my son is pukey sick, woke us up crying "owie-owie-ow". So sad. Fever 103.1 this morning. I had to stay home with him. He fever was down, but still puking.
After all that, he comes home and is like "what did you do today?" Not in a friendly conversation way, but in a crabby "I just pulled a calf out of a cow's backside and I come home to this?" I was busy with laundry today, took care of my kid, things he could see obviously when he walked in the door.
Sorry, getting off topic there.
No news today is good news that she is safe and getting help.