Posted 6/25/2013 4:51 AM (GMT 0)
Long story short... I am a father of three great sons and have been married for 22 years. Every marriage has its ups and downs as everyone knows. My problem is that my wife has exhibited Bipolar type behavior all along our married life, nothing to dramatic but rather she can be pleasant to be around one day and the next three to four days its like " who did I marry?" Her behavior is more on the side losing her temper at the drop of a hat, saying things to me and my boys at the most inopportune times. I am really holding back here but I am at my whits end. We actually went to marriage counseling twice and both times the counselor would listen to both of us etc... then look at my wife and indicate maybe she needed help. Well that was the end of that session... Her family has a deep history of depression and bipolar disorders, first question, is this genetic?
There are endless stories that I could expand on but I think this forum has heard just about everything. Second question, our email and facebook accounts were compromised and when I asked her for the password to her facebook account to change it she exploded which has sent her over the deep end again. I gave her all of mine (as if in good faith) and I have nothing to hide.... She is very protective of her phone , even if I pick it up for whatever reason, please understand she is not a computer geek but is completely unorganized about everything. I have suspected from behavior that she may have cheated in the past from these types of behavior. Am I being paranoid? Did I cross the line by asking for the password? Oh, when I did she looked me dead in the eye and frankly said without any emotion, I really dont like you anymore... What do I do with this??