Difference in BP1 and 2

Hi all,

looking for BP1 AND 2 differences plus BPD/NPD.
My husband of 14years is acting strange and bizzare ,very controlling ,mean and lacks empathy ,physical and psychologically abusive giving me intense depression and panic attacks ,sometimes i feel if its worth living with him .

I know all BP ppl are not abusive so its perplexing as he has mentioned on several occasions abt BP disorder ?
He is unmedicated and needs help,i love him and he doesn't love me (as he takes no responsibility of his mental health)and wanna support him even in his journey to his medication and recovery but he calls me "depressed" if i say anything or ask for counseling .
he is very mentally controlling and am tired of his ways .
My body and mind have given up on me and can't share all this with family /parents and siblings as might cause them mental anguish and pain.
I don't have financial resources to separate or move out as i don't work and i worry constantly about my husband deteriorating mental health as he is in psychosis right now and does not know what he is blabbering or doing?
If i utter a word he calls me names and becomes very violent and filled with extreme hostility and explosive rage .
I cannot see him and me suffer as relationship is suffering too,i want to make things better ,plz help me with advise ,

agree with charmy. and yes the psychotic symptoms are sometimes. i have rapid cycling bi-polar disorder and my condition is now-with heaps of therapy and stacks of hard work is managed very well. people should be aware that there are scales of psychosis; i go excited and go off at the tv and get all high energy about it. my mate says do you always do this, i say sometimes. although i am still fully functioning. (have all my wits and faculties) people in the main, with bi-polar are very intelligent people, we just have to fight very hard to manage or condition. keep well.