extremely angry

My BP partner has so much anger and emotional outburst -like throwing objects on walls and at me ,his rage is like a wild beast .

Now it has reached for a point i am extremely frustrated by his actions and behavior ,how do I tell him without becoming target of his hostility and anger -that he is psychotic and getting out of hand -he needs to be seen ,evaluated ,medicated ..only then we can be ok and stay in harmony.

its very difficult -as he feels nothing is absurd,odd or wrong with him..totally in denial ..

'feels guilty after -doing bad and mean things ,feels sad for days but won't admit to this "hard to control"outbursts which are tearing me physically and emotionally down.

I will fully support him in his journey to get better and with care and love.

why is he sooo anxious and worried all the time ,,by incase i know i will leave him alone and run away....

I am person who understands mental illness and does not care about stigma part ;as health information is always confidential-
his sis and dad -both are BP(genetic but not diagnosed)...so he thinks he can act like them and still live with me.
how can i convince him to take this serious as I love him dearly with all my heart (cannot imagine leaving him when he needs me most)and ready to sacrifice anything for him to get better.

please help with insights--

cilly, it can be hard dealing with a partner's mood swings at times especially when it's becoming abusive. I'm really sorry you are going through this.

It's nice that you are there for your hubby but tt seems like your partner is becoming verbally and physically abusive. Is there anyone who can talk to him about getting treatment? He needs to get help in order to be treated and get better.

Do you have any family or friends you can go by to spend some time when your husband start acting this way? I really do not want to get get hurt physically.

Please keep us updated on how things are.

UA

Sometimes, unhealthy relationships can be harmful to us. Sometimes we have to let go. I know it can be hard especially when it's someone you deeply care about.

I think acceptance is a factor when staying in any relationship that is unhealthy. We have to realize that this is the way that person is, and they may never change. We accept them how they are, and then move on or mvoe forward. Accepting them this way can be hard. This is where coping skills comes in to help us. Practice your coping skills and ensure you take care of yourself.

I hope things will get better for you soon Cilly.

*Hugs*
UA