New member with lots of questions

I' m in need of a lot answers! I'm in a marriage from hell (19 years). I'm almost sure it's bipolar but I'm not a doctor.Severe mood swings..well not really swinging...just plain depressed..hateful..mean..superior to everyone..his way or no way...blames everyone but himself...Never has a kind word..very very negative..always complaining...throws things..nothing ever goes right for him..always cutting someone down...has no friends..does not socialize with any of his family (none)..has no hobbies..no interest..when at home sits in chair and watching tv (hours)..very defensive about everything..never a good thing to say NEVER..he's down on his childhood..his exwife..his family..my family..noone measures up..his coworkers can't stand him and he doesn't care..no second chances with him..no of my family comes around any more..holidays have turned into a joke at our house..very arguementative...hopefully this is a start for you all to think about..by the way he's always been this way..Thank you all in advance..just searching for some answers and where to start..

Hi leviii,

Welcome to the forum!

I am sorry for what you are going through. It sounds like your partner needs professional help. Please encourage him to seek some help where he will be able to get treatment.

Please also feel free to check out our resources section where you can find very useful information:
www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=13&m=350839

UA