Posted 10/24/2015 4:25 PM (GMT 0)
My wife and I have been married for two months. She has exhibited symptoms of Bipolar Disorder, and PTSD. Her mood swings became violent, so I suggested that she get help. She agreed at first, but then when her mood changed, she decided that all of the issues were my fault. It seems like since I mentioned seeing someone to get help, I became her enemy. She has since stopped talking to me, attempted to charge me with domestic abuse, and has become more erratic by the day. I love my wife dearly, and I want to see her get the help she needs, whether her and I stay married or not. I want to be a good husband, keep my vows, and be there for her, because that's what I said I would do. I just don't know what, if anything, I can do to help her when she's bent on putting all of the problems on me, and won't even speak to me. My kids and I have been through a lot, emotionally. She would run us down, like we aren't good enough, or tell us that we are the reason that she can't accomplish goals. What, if anything, can I do at this point to help her? I am so conflicted, and so worn out, jumping from one foot to another trying to please her. Please help...