Hey Randi:
Sorry it took me so long to write you. You have been in my thoughts. I am sorry your news wasn't b9, I was waiting to read your post that day, and my prayers were with you when you didn't respond during the day. I'm glad you're back and I definately relate to the info overload.
Dr. Love's book was the best one for me. I spent a small fortune a couple of weeks after being diagnosed on books, (watch the spending right now, you're vulnerable and the bills still come, even if you have cancer), but I could have gotten the one book and it would have been fine. I also liked the fiesty woman's breast cancer book. Don't remember the author's name. She had a great attitude.
All the thoughts, especially when you have a child, are overwhelming right now. I'm glad you have us to talk to about it. Sometimes family can't handle it the way we can. Mine couldn't. I probably handled it better than they did!!!
I did very well on the Chemo. I also did AC, for six treatments, three weeks apart. I spent a lot of the time trying to get to know my reactions and achieve a colon-friendly medication formula. My colon would shut down, and I couldn't go unless I had a lot of laxitive and stool softener. That was the worst part of that. THen came Taxotere, which caused body aches. I was able to work, though. Straight through, not too many days off.
Write back when you need....