Oops, forgot to add that when the pathology report came back after the double mastectomy, it showed that the "good side" had cancer too! It had been missed, even by an MRI done before surgery to look for any other areas of concern. It was LCIS, which apparently is harder to diagnose by mammogram. I saw an oncologist earlier this week for the first time. She confirmed what my surgeon said...no radiation or chemo would be required. No hormone therapy would be needed. They got it all. My lymph nodes were clear. It hadn't spread. They got it early. My husband cannot stop smiling. This nightmare is over for both of us. Unfortunately not every journey ends like mine but I know you will be there every step of the way for your wife. Good luck.
My decision might seem radical to some, but for me, it was absolutely the right decision. I'm exactly 8 weeks out from surgery today and feel great. Next week I start some physical therapy to stretch tight, sore muscles and increase my range of motion. I didn't find the surgery recovery painless, but it was manageable with IV Tylenol every 6 hours in the hospital, then as needed at home. I still take it once in a while. I think the whole experience is not so much terribly painful as it is full of unpleasant, uncomfortable, and weird sensations. Other people with lower pain tolerances find they need narcotic pain relief. We are all different.